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Self-Forgiveness: 10 Things to Let Go of This Mental Health Awareness Week

As Mental Health Awareness Week draws to a close, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the significance of self-forgiveness in our mental health journey. For many of us, forgiving ourselves is often a more challenging endeavour than forgiving others. Yet, self-forgiveness is crucial for healing and moving forward. Here’s ten areas we can learn to forgive ourselves, allowing us to cultivate more compassion towards ourselves.

  1. Not Seeking Help Earlier

Many people struggle with seeking help for mental health issues due to stigma, denial, or even unawareness. If you’re one of them, it’s important to let go of any guilt or self-blame. Remember, your journey to healing starts when you’re ready, and it’s never too late.

  1. Needing Time to Rest and Heal

Taking time off or lessening responsibilities for mental health reasons often triggers feelings of guilt. It’s essential to forgive yourself for having this time. You are not weak or lazy; you are taking the necessary steps to recover.

  1. Not Being “Perfect”

Our society tends to idealise perfection, creating unrealistic expectations that foster feelings of inadequacy. It’s ok to forgive yourself for not fitting into this unattainable mould. You are perfectly human with your unique strengths and weaknesses.

  1. Negative Thoughts and Emotions

Experiencing negative thoughts and emotions is a part of being human. Forgive yourself for these feelings and remember that it’s okay to feel upset, anxious, or down at times.

  1. Past Mistakes

Past mistakes are life lessons, not life sentences. It’s handy to learn from them, but it’s equally important to forgive yourself for making them. They are part of your growth, not a permanent reflection of your worth.

  1. Not Recognising Signs of Mental Illness

Identifying mental health issues, especially in yourself, can be incredibly challenging. Forgive yourself for not seeing the signs sooner. Being grateful for your present awareness it is a significant step in your journey.

  1. Struggling with Self-Care

If you’ve neglected self-care due to mental health challenges, it’s time to practice forgiveness. Remember, every little step you take towards better self-care, be it a walk around the block or a home-cooked meal, is a victory to be celebrated.

  1. Isolating From Others

Forgive yourself if you’ve withdrawn from your social circles due to your mental health. It’s not a personal failure, but it can be a common reaction to feeling unwell. As you heal, rebuilding connections will become less daunting.

  1. Not Being Able to “Snap Out Of It”

Understand and forgive yourself for not being able to just “snap out” of your mental health issues. They are not a sign of weakness or a lack of willpower. Recovery is a ‘process not an event’.

  1. Struggling with Recovery

Finally, remember that recovery is not a linear process. Forgive yourself for the bad days and remember that they do not define your journey. Celebrate every step you take, no matter how small, because each one signifies progress.

Remember, the process of self-forgiveness is not a one-time event but a continuous part of our mental health journey. If you’re struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out. You are not alone, and help is available. Here’s to healing, growth, and a deeper understanding of our mental health this Mental Health Awareness Week.

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